Scripture: Matthew 18:15-17
“Be kind and compassionate to one another,
forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Ephesians 4:32 (NIV)
A s humans, we constantly interact with one another with
the view of achieving some predetermined objective which may result in unavoidable conflict or
provocation. How we deal with such provocation is of utmost
importance to the sustenance of relationships and the
attainment of divine objectives even as a church.
Sometimes, when we offend others, we let our ego get in the
way and it becomes difficult to apologize. When we casually
or reluctantly admit our fault and apologize we often expect
the other party to forgive immediately and if they refuse to, we
are quick to criticize them and sever the relationship. But
Jesus gives us a guide to help deal with such
misunderstandings. Jesus says we must engage the
individual in order to deal with the issue (v15); involve others
if need be (v16) or get a higher authority such as the church to
intervene and assist in resolving the issue (v17). It is only
when we have diligently followed through these steps that we
can let them be if they still refuse to forgive (v17).
It may seem easier to play the blame game or try to justify our
actions or inactions during disagreements. Maintaining a
good relationship is more important than trying to justify our
position and prove how right our actions or reactions are.
Regardless of the justification you employ as your defence, it
is important to carefully seek resolution like Jesus advises.
Do not let your ego stand in the way of your relationships.
REMEMBER TO ATTEND: MAP Meeting (Home Fellowship) tomorrow.
PRAYER: Lord, give me the grace
and humility of heart to
follow peace with
all men in Jesus name
FAITH BYTE:I am God’s agent of peace,
therefore, I seek to
maintain peaceful
relationships always.
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